I often hear people talking about quality time and how it is all about the quality – especially in regards to family and friends. I understand why they do that but I think it ignores the sense in which quality in a relationship normally only comes from spending large amounts of time together. Sure you can have quantity time without quality time, but I don’t think you can ever have quality time without quantity. You can’t predict or diarise the most important quality conversations you will have with your family or a good friend. It’s only by spending hours together that those times emerge, perhaps for only a few minutes, it’s why I’m trying to cement more time in my diary for hanging out with family and friends.
Married to the amazing Sarah and raising Jakey, Daniel, Amelia, Josh & Jonah in our blended family. Passionate for Jesus, social work & sport.